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I recently came back from jogging. It’s surprising to state those words. I believe it might have been a decade since my last. Yet I recently discovered that my levels show somewhat raised cholesterol, and I’ve been advised to do sweaty exercise frequently.

It’s the initial instance in living memory that my motivation to exercise has been my physical health. When I was younger, I ran because I wanted to slim down. At times I ran to manage nervousness – It was an avoidance tactic from those feelings, not addressing it. On other occasions, I jogged because I wanted to enhance at running. It signified the meaning to me at that time to build an improved existence.

Exercising with new motivation now prompted contemplation about the methods I’ve interacted with my physical self during my years and the way it’s evolving as I move from early adulthood to midlife. It seems unlikely I’ve honored my own body, not deep down. I’ve valued it only for its functions and the objectives it provided: aiming to appeal; escaping emotions; completing a speedier 5km. Up to now, I’ve not understood that I am my body, it is my life, as opposed to something that produces results.

A great deal has been discussed through history about the separation of mind and body – which it’s comforting to know, I’ll avoid detailing here. What I’ve found most compelling is Freud’s understanding that mind and body are innately connected right from the start, because bodily growth requires emotional evolution and the reverse is true. A baby’s bodily experiences – such as the bodily feeling of hunger – drive the brain to build the skill to recognise hunger as an emotion that is alleviated by eating; and the emotional comfort and satisfaction consistently provided by feed after feed supports the infant’s psyche similar to the nutrition nourishes them bodily. Likewise mental events – for instance the wish to rise and attain a goal, and the persistence to attempt repeatedly – are the reason and method the body develops power. Starting at birth, mind and body are interlinked in mutual development as integrated as DNA strands.

But It’s become clear, in treatment with my psychoanalyst, that mental and physical aspects might experience a different kind of relationship – a more separated and more exploitative. My psyche might utilize my body to retain and express aspects that my consciousness views undesirable or unbearable. During therapy we’ve become aware that there are specific feelings that I fear are too much for me; in place of sensing them mentally, I unintentionally force them into bodily form, where they remain as bodily signs.

I used to get digestive discomfort – which had nothing to do with what I’d eaten, but was a kind of physical reflux of the sharper sentiments I was unable to process in my mind. This was not a deliberate decision, but once it was raised into my consciousness through therapy, and my dread and vulnerability and anger and terror were experienced and put into words rather than changed into corporeal symptoms, it vanished. I rarely suffer with digestive issues now.

The toughest period I endured this severe heartburn, I failed to rest for several nights in a row. I felt I was slipping away from my mind. I went my doctor, who scheduled all sorts of scans and tests, but no issues were found corporally problematic. The situation was a different physician who informed me that the origin could be psychological. My analyst agreed. I was surprised, but I also knew it was correct.

When a patient is suffering a corporeal problem, they can be offended upon hearing that it could have a psychological cause. It can seem as invalidation, being told that their condition isn’t real. Naturally that does happen – individuals may experience their suffering ignored or wrongly assessed. But in some cases it could be that the corporeal issues exist – certainly – and the cause is psychological, the inner mind employing the body to convey certain suffering or fury or whatever emotion the mind fails to handle. Occasionally, we might assume our emotions is only valid if manifested in physical form. We often undervalue our minds on a personal level, collectively and culturally; for what reason do we accept the terrible reduction of psychological therapies through health services?

Life lessons have taught me that a superior lifestyle is unattainable while caught unawares in modes of connection, within ourselves and in relationships, that are rooted in disregard, manipulation and transaction. Such patterns are frequently more straightforward to spot “out there” in the general public. It’s perhaps more challenging to think about how they got out there, and to see these patterns within ourselves and among loved ones, in the economy of our psyches.

But persistence pays off. Upon wearing my running shoes once more after such a long decade, venturing out not for bodily change, or to get rid of a feeling, or to improve a personal best, {it